It’s the day before you leave. You’re excited to discover a new place, meet new people, and enjoy fun activities.
But one question might still be on your mind:
“How will I make friends? How to make friends during your language stay in France ?”
Don’t worry — that’s completely normal. You’re not the only one wondering about this. Many kids feel the same way before a new adventure. Luckily, there are easy ways to connect with others and enjoy your stay to the fullest.
1. Everyone feels shy at first
Feeling shy is very common — especially in a new environment, with new faces, and sometimes a new language.
But here’s something important to remember:
You’re not alone. Almost everyone feels a little nervous at first.
- In fact, you already share a lot in common with the other participants:
- You’re discovering a new place together
- You’re part of the same group
- You’re away from your family and daily routine
That’s a great starting point. Being a little brave in the beginning can lead to wonderful friendships.
2. Start simple: ask questions
The best way to get to know someone is to ask questions. Even a small conversation can lead to a real connection.
- Here are a few easy questions to try:
- What country are you from?
- What’s your favorite kind of music?
- Do you watch Netflix or play video games?
- Have you ever been to France before?
People love when someone shows interest in them. So be curious — and don’t be afraid to make the first move !
3. Be friendly and stay positive
Even if you’re nervous, try to smile and show a positive attitude.
You don’t have to be the loudest or funniest person in the group — just being kind, polite, and open can make a big difference.
A little humor or a fun fact about yourself can help break the ice.
And don’t worry about speaking perfect English or French — everyone knows that participants come from different countries, and that’s what makes the experience so rich.
What matters most is being yourself. That’s how the best friendships start.
4. Take part in group activities
During your language stay in France, you’ll take part in a wide range of group activities designed to help you relax, have fun, and connect with others.
Whether it’s sports, cultural workshops, day trips, team games, or themed evenings — every moment is a chance to meet new people.
These shared experiences are perfect for making friends. You’ll laugh, collaborate, and discover common interests without even realizing it.
Fun games like Time’s Up or Loup-Garou are also great moments to talk, joke, and feel part of the group.
If you’re wondering how to make friends during your language stay in France, these activities are often the easiest and most natural way to start. You don’t need to force anything — just be present and enjoy the moment.
Tip: If you ever feel left out or unsure, don’t hesitate to talk to a group leader or coordinator. They’re here to help and make sure everyone feels supported and welcome.
5. Keep the friendship going
Once you’ve met someone you like spending time with, try to build that connection:
- Sit together at meals
- Join the same activity groups
- Take photos and create memories
And when your stay is over?
Your friendship doesn’t have to end when your language stay in France comes to an end. You can keep in touch through social media, email, or even plan to visit each other again in the future.
Many students build strong international friendships during their stay — and some of them last for years. Who knows? It might happen to you too !
Once you’ve found one or more people you get along with, try to spend time with them during activities and excursions. That’s how real friendships grow.
You’ll probably take photos together — so smile and enjoy the moment ! Those little moments often become the memories you’ll cherish long after your stay.
And remember, the adventure doesn’t have to stop there. If you want to, you can keep in touch and continue the friendship you built during your stay.
Some friendships made during a language stay in France can last for years — who knows, you might meet a friend for life !
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