10 things I wish I knew before coming to France

France is one of the most beautiful and fascinating countries in the world. But no matter how many guidebooks you read or TikToks you scroll through, there are some things you only learn once you’re here. Whether you’re preparing for your first stay in France or just dreaming about croissants and cobblestone streets, here are ten things I wish someone had told me before I arrived and how experiences like CEI’s can help you enjoy every moment.

1. You don’t need perfect French to connect

You might think you need to speak fluently to be understood or make friends. But even a few basic phrases like “Bonjour, merci, ça va ?” can go a long way. People appreciate your effort, and immersion programs like CEI’s are designed to make speaking feel easy and natural. You’ll be surprised how quickly real conversations happen.

2. France is not just baguettes and the Eiffel Tower

Sure, Paris is iconic, but the real magic starts when you explore beyond the capital. Think surfing in Biarritz, hiking through the Alps, strolling medieval streets in Brittany, or catching a sunset in a tiny village you never expected to love.

Every corner of France feels like a new adventure. And with CEI, you’re living these places. You try the food, meet local people, and feel what everyday life is really like. It’s the kind of experience that turns “just a trip” into something unforgettable.

Students on a CEI stay in France biking with Mont Saint-Michel in the background and enjoying cultural discovery in the great outdoors.
Photo: CEI Image Library – students enjoying a bicycle ride near Mont Saint-Michel during their stay in France

3. Yes, that sign really says “fermé”

This can be a bit frustrating at first… until you realize it’s part of the slower rhythm here. Life in France is not about rushing. It’s about taking time, enjoying the moment, and knowing that not everything has to be open 24/7.

4. Saying “bonjour” really matters

In France, “bonjour” means more than just hello. It’s a small gesture that shows respect and warmth. From shopkeepers to strangers on the street, taking the time to greet someone creates a shared moment. And not saying it might feel surprisingly out of place.

5. Croissants are just the beginning

Sure, the croissants and cheese are iconic. But what truly leaves a lasting impression is the meaning behind every meal. It is the pause in the day, the company at the table, and the joy of eating well together.

International students eating crepes during a CEI cultural activity in France.
Photo: CEI Image Library – students enjoying a crepe party during their language stay

6. You don’t snack the same way

In France, snacking isn’t really a thing. People eat at regular times, and that’s that with one delicious exception. Around 4 p.m., it’s time for “le goûter,” a sweet little break that kids look forward to… and adults happily join in.

7. Every region feels like a different country

In France, everything shifts from one region to the next — the landscapes, the food, even the way people speak. One week you’re surrounded by mountains, the next you’re strolling through a seaside village. CEI’s summer stays let you experience this incredible variety as part of local life.

Panoramic view of the historic city of Albi with the Tarn River and Sainte-Cécile Cathedral in southern France.
Photo © Adobe Stock

8. Sundays are truly for rest

Sundays in France feel different. Most shops are closed, the streets are calm, and everyone seems to take a deep breath. It’s a day for long lunches, lazy afternoons, and enjoying the simple pleasure of slowing down.

9. You’ll grow in ways you didn’t expect

A stay in France can open your eyes in ways you never expected. You build real connections, gain confidence, and return home with a fresh perspective. It’s the kind of experience that leaves a mark and stays with you long after the journey ends.

10. It’s OK to feel out of place at first

It’s normal to feel a little out of place at first. Adapting takes time, and some things might surprise you. But with each day, it gets easier. Slowly, routines become familiar, connections grow, and before you know it, France starts to feel like your own little home away from home.

Young travelers on a CEI stay in France enjoying the stunning Brittany coast and making unforgettable memories with new international friends.
Photo: CEI Image Library – students enjoying the coastline during a CEI summer stay in Brittany

Ready for your own adventure?

If you want to experience the real France as a true explorer — CEI’s programs are a great place to start. Whether it’s a summer stay, a language immersion, or a school year abroad, our programs help young people discover local culture, build confidence, and make lifelong memories.

Ready to start your adventure? Browse our programs now and give your child a summer to remember!